You’re staring down at a deck of cards life has dealt you, and instead of playing the hand you’ve got, you’re daydreaming about a different game entirely—one that doesn’t exist. Sound familiar?
It’s easy to reject the world as it is, wishing things were different. But here’s the hard truth: You can’t change the game by sitting on the sidelines and sulking.
If you want to succeed, you need to get inside the world as it is, work with the parts within your grasp, and make the most of them.
The Trap of Wishing for a Different World
There’s a common temptation to reject the world as it’s presented to us. We get frustrated with the way things are and start fantasizing about a reality that’s easier, fairer, or just more aligned with our desires.
But here’s the thing: wishing for a different reality won’t change anything. It’s a waste of time and energy that could be better spent making real progress.
As a solopreneur, you can’t afford to get lost in “what could be.” You need to deal with “what is.”
The world isn’t going to rearrange itself to suit your preferences.
Your success depends on your ability to navigate the world as it is, using the tools and opportunities at your disposal.
Embracing Reality: The Power of Working with What You’ve Got
Think of your business like a sculptor’s block of marble. You could complain that the marble isn’t the exact shape you wanted, or you could pick up your chisel and start carving out something beautiful from what you have.
The choice is yours, but only one option leads to progress.
Take Amazon, for example. When Jeff Bezos started the company, he didn’t waste time complaining about the limitations of the early internet or the challenges of building an online store in a world dominated by brick-and-mortar retailers.
Instead, he embraced the reality of the internet’s infancy and worked within it to create something revolutionary.
Bezos didn’t wish for a different world—he built Amazon within the one he had, and the results speak for themselves.
Real-World Example: Turning Obstacles into Opportunities
Another great example is Airbnb. When founders Brian Chesky and Joe Gebbia started the company, they didn’t reject the world of expensive hotels and the challenges of finding affordable accommodations. Instead, they saw an opportunity within the existing landscape.
They realized that people had spare rooms, couches, or even entire homes that could be rented out. Instead of wishing for a world where hotels were cheaper or more accessible, they worked within the one they had and created a platform that revolutionized the travel industry.
Chesky and Gebbia didn’t start with perfect conditions. They started with a tough reality, but instead of rejecting it, they worked with it.
They didn’t change the world overnight, but they did change the way millions of people travel by leveraging what was already available.
Practical Steps to Work with What You’ve Got
So, how can you apply this mindset to your own business? Here are a few practical steps:
- Identify What’s Within Your Control: Focus on the parts of your business that you can influence directly. Whether it’s your marketing strategy, customer service, or product development, identify the areas where you can make a difference.
- Leverage Existing Opportunities: Instead of lamenting what you don’t have, look for opportunities within the current market. What trends can you capitalize on? What gaps can you fill? Use what’s already available to your advantage.
- Adapt and Innovate: Be flexible in your approach. If something isn’t working, don’t waste time wishing it would change. Adapt to the circumstances and find innovative ways to achieve your goals within the constraints you’re facing.
- Stay Grounded in Reality: Keep your feet on the ground. Don’t get lost in wishful thinking. The most successful entrepreneurs are those who work with the world as it is, not as they wish it to be.
- Build Resilience: Learn to thrive in less-than-ideal conditions. The more resilient you are, the better equipped you’ll be to handle the challenges that come your way.
How I Can Help
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You deserve to create something great, not by wishing for different circumstances, but by mastering the ones you’re in.
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